I chatted with the driver who was interested to learn that I had been born in Phnom Penh in 1975 -- he would have been old enough to remember April 17, 1975, and it struck me that the memories of the Khmer Rouge must still be so raw for so many Cambodians. I didn't have the nerve to ask him about what he experienced ... I'm not yet sure if people are open to talking about it.
After four days of walking through Phnom Penh, four things have stood out for me..
-- The traffic is crazy! I thought Bangkok was chaotic but at least they have lights and rules. Here, the cars, motos, bikes all follow their own laws - motos often zip down the wrong side of the street and there are no traffic lights or right of way at intersections. I sat at one corner for 10 minutes and watched the vehicles converge from all four sides and somehow move their way around each other to get across to the other side. There are very few crosswalks so if you have to cross a road as a pedestrian, you have to calmly step out in front of the oncoming traffic and trust they can see you! They generally will just move around you so you must keep a steady pace and not surprise the drivers or you will get hit! That said, accidents - espeically for motos -- are very common.
-- Phnom Penh is a poor city but there is a certain charm that slowly creeps into you. There is a pretty promenade with trees and flapping flags right along the bank of the Tonle Sap river where many tourists and Cambodians alike spend their evening. The wide boulevards are lined with trees and there are stretches of park with sculptures and monuments. Best of all is the colonial architecture, which is everywhere in the city - the French certainly left their mark on Phnom Penh. For many years, the buildings were left to rot but recently there has been a resurgence of restoration by the government, which sees the tourist value of beautifying the city. The following photos are typical - they stand side by side, with one falling into disrepair and the other painted the typical cream yellow.
-- Cambodians are a very attractive people -- both the men and women -- and I'm not just saying that cause I'm Cambodian! There is something quite distinctive in their look, certainly different than the Thais. I'm not sure if there is a mix in the history of the Khmer people that has resulted in a more defined bone structure and beautiful eyes.
-- The poverty in the city is striking and depressing -- many young children begging in the streets, often leading a blind parent or a grandparent with amputated limbs. As you leave the restaurants or museums, they approach you with their hands out and with the saddest expressions on their faces. There are a lot of NGOs (non-governmental agencies) in Cambodia - and I wonder if they are making a difference?

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Naomi, Ihave been checking this and my e mail as often as possible. Thanks for this window into your first impressions. I have been brought to tears reading this and thinking of all the people and circumstances that came together to allow my precious daughter to come out of there alive. Love always
Wow! Dad just let me know about this site. This really must be a deep experience for you. How it must be to finally visit the country of your birth. Amethyst recieved your postcard and we all enjoyed it. It reminded me of all the cards I had recieved from my far travelling family. Hope to hear more about the Travelbug. Love from the little Hamersley Family.
Hello to both of you...! It does seem really surreal being here and knowing that somewhere in this city, Noelle and I were born. I'm trying to figure out where Canada House would have been...
Hey Niom,
This is definitely an experience I wish I could share with you. It is very emotional just reading about it. I can't wait to come in November/December...
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Hey Naomi! I love checking this page for your wonderful updates. It's great living vicariously through you. What an amazing adventure!! Big Hugs.
Yeah Naomi!
It's so great to read your posts. Of course because you are my sister but also because you are a fabulous writer. Your beautiful description of that special travelers feeling of moving from one world to the next, and that distinct realization of pulling of the layers one by one (of the west and tourism) to find a grittier more real than real world. There always seems to be more veils to pass through. To wander or wonder into an unique alignment of situations where no one has gone before.
Fall in love with it all while staying awake to danger.
Love you sister!
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